A private ruling costs £2.99, payable only once both parties have been heard. Consent to publication in the Court's public record and the fee is waived entirely. Nothing is charged if the other party never answers.
Do not include surnames, addresses, workplaces or anything that would identify a third party. The Court rules on conduct, not on people.
The Oath
"I agree to accept the ruling of the Court, whatever it finds."
Six questions. About ten minutes. Your statement is never shown to the other party.